true. If you don’t know who you are, you may find that you know how to respond in ways that you never even imagined. So that’s really the key to it. ("Surrender Means Having No Control," WIE, Fall 1995, Vo. 4, No. 2, on WIEWS, 1 February 2000.) Action – How can one be sure one is taking right action? Q: How do you know if your actions are the right ones?